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Friday, February 8th, 2008
I’m taking a workshop on online social networking and youth ministry for the New Beginnings Youth Ministry Intensive at Trinity College in Brisbane, next week. We’ll have 90 minutes to explore ways in which youth ministry can happen online.
We’ll identify some of the relational modes we’ve seen already:
1. Email - newsletters, conversations
2. Instant Messaging - conversations
3. Web sites - notice boards, forums
4. Blogs - chances to interact
And then we’ll take a look at the social networking side - Facebook, MySpace, YouTube, Bebo, Friendster…
Rhett Smith, college director of The Quest, at Bel Air Presbyterian Church in Los Angeles, has his outline for a workshop online, exploring our own online journey, the issue of online identities, the challenge of leading within an online structure where there is no official leadership, the ambiguity found in positive and negatives, and the call to be involved in transforming communities.
Here’s a few of my issues…
1. Development of identity.
Young people need to develop their own sense of who they are in relationship to their community. Online communities provide opportunities for experimentation.
2. Development of intimacy
I’ve seen socially awkward teenagers develop the capacity for in depth conversations once the tongue-tied blushing body had become irrelevant. There’s potential here but also the danger of imbalance. There’s a tension between knowing and being known by many and knowing and being known well. The more ‘friends’ we add to our profiles the more difficult it is to foster relationships of integrity.
Freedom and Addiction
The house church I belong to is currently working through a series of studies relating to Lent, focusing on ‘Letting Go For Life”. Youth leaders have the opportunity to reflect with young people about the cravings (some very healthy) that can end up as addictions. Winning at that game. Being affirmed by others and added to their lists of friends.
Proximity
I don’t expect youth leaders to spend all their time with young people. There’s a need for healthy boundaries. However it is important to be accessible. For that reason I’ve accepted teenagers from church youth groups etc as ‘friends’ in MySpace and Facebook but have not gone pursuing them.
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Monday, January 14th, 2008
I worked with 25 teenagers and adults yesterday to look at ways of responding ‘when church sucks’. There’s a danger in raising this topic that our already existing tendency towards consumerism will be confirmed. However the organisers of the Summer Madness Uniting Church weekend believed that equipping young people for taking part in the Christian community needs to include dealing with disappointment, frustration and boredom. Not dealing with it has clearly led to many young people walking as soon as loyalty, family and peer pressure has worn off.
We began with an excerpt from Mr Bean goes to church. It’s the skit in which Rowan Atkinson’s character walks into church to find that the sermon is totally unintelligible. While the preacher drones on, in another language it seems, Mr Bean must deal with a runny nose and no handkerchief, drowsiness and the desire to eat a sweet without attracting attention to himself. Add to that the difficulty of navigating the hymns.
Young people in the workshop certainly related to the tiredness factor. Sunday morning is not the easiest time to stay awake for many. It’s hard to be spiritually focused when the body is not functioning well!
We drew inspiration from 101 Things to do during a Dull Sermon, by Tim Simms and Dan Pagoda (illustrator). These guys came up with a list of ideas for higher learning, diversions, games, musings and meditations, fine arts, church-er-cise, facts and figures. My favourite is church cricket. This is not listening to the cricket on the radio or using a mobile phone to check scores, great ideas that they are. It’s a competition to gain the most runs based on the gestures of the preacher and worship leader. You can earn points for a wide, four, six, bye. Leg byes are not common in church. A finger in the air indicates you’re out and it’s the next person’s turn to bat. To check out the signals see the BBC Sport Academy Guide.
Ideas from the workshop included:
1. Organise the toddlers at the back to make the service interesting…
2. Rearrange the Bibles and hymn books - by alphabet, colour…
3. Do a word search (count) in the Bible for key words
4. Pass the parcel combined with key words from the preacher
5. Phone the preacher’s mobile phone to check that it’s turned off
6. Share bluetooth photographs
7. Develop a cheer leader routine
8. Gameboy, PSP hand held games
On a more serious note, we looked at ways the preaching slot can be redeemed for young people (and a lot of adults).
1. Divide long sermons into smaller sections, using video, cartoons, discussion, interviews etc
2. Show some enthusiasm, at least once during the sermon!
3. Risk telling a joke
4. Try multiple formats - so that if people aren’t connecting with the preacher at least there’s something else to look at. Imagery (not just key points) helps with this. Photographs, art, movies…
5. Communicate with alternative forms - using drama for example
6. Mix up the preaching roster - give others a go, even for shorter slots.
So what makes preaching dull?
Preachers are sometimes in the same boat as the people in the pews - they’ve not had enough sleep. Particularly if they stayed up into the wee hours writing the sermon. I’ve heard of ministers who have fallen asleep during their own sermons! Low blood sugar level can lead to drowsiness. THe appeal from these young people was for preachers to be at their best. If need be, have an energy drink or coffee before - though that can lead to post service depression and exhaustion.
Lack of preparation, be that intellectual, emotional or spiritual, can lead to lack of clarity. I remember a minister who misplaced his notes halfway through his sermon. He confessed to the congregation that he couldn’t remember what he was going to say next. A clever member of the congregation replied, “If you can’t remember what you were going to say, how do you expect us to remember what you said?”
Relevance is a subjective thing. Young people in my workshop talked about the test of relevance being linked to why we have sermons in the first place - keeping us on track with faith in action. Will we be inspired and equipped to live out our beliefs? Most people make a call on that in the first few minutes. If there’s little hope of relevance it’s back to 101 Things to Do During A Dull Sermon.
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Tuesday, October 9th, 2007
Steve Drinkall in Brisbane has launched Postcard Radio, a podcast site focusing on emerging missional church in Queensland, sponsored by the Churches of Christ, Queensland Baptists and Uniting Church in Australia.
Postcard Radio is committed to discovering and interviewing those brave souls who are finding innovative new ways to communicate an old message. All of the people interviewed on the site live, serve, work and play in South East Queensland and all have a passion for helping ordinary Australians connect with the person of Jesus.
I’m one of the first three interviewees, along with two Baptists…
Billy Williams is serving and reaching urban aboriginal people in Brisbane’s northern suburbs. As the founders and leaders of Dhiiyaan , Billy and his wife are reinventing what it means to be the church at a park on any Sunday afternoon.
Mick Cross, youth pastor at Reedy Creek Baptist on the Gold Coast, has taken the challenge of multiplication seriously in his youth ministry. He has restructured everyone into “Tribes” and allowed student interests to dominate where they meet, what they do and who will lead them.
Some of the ideas here are small, some are large. Some involve thousands of people, some involve just a handful. Some require lots of resources and some are completely free. We hope that these stories and ideas will create a new movement of innovation in living and sharing the message of Jesus with people in our region. Tune in, switch your brain on and imagine what else we could do…
www.postcardradio.com
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